What is sexual harassment?
Sexual harassment covers a range of unwanted or unwelcome sexual behaviour. Sexual harassment is sexual behaviour that can make a person feel:
- ashamed
- offended
- humiliated
- intimidated
- frightened
- in pain
It includes a person or group:
- making sexual jokes, comments or gestures that are offensive or make you feel uncomfortable
- insulting you sexually
- asking, emailing or texting you for sexual favours
- staring at parts of your body, such as your breasts or genitals
- asking intrusive questions about your sex life
- showing or sending you pornographic or offensive material
- displaying sexual material, such as posters or screensavers
It also includes a person or group:
- touching or grabbing your body in an unwanted way
- demanding you have sex with them
Sexual harassment includes indecent or sexual assault.
In Australia, sexual harassment is illegal under the Commonwealth Sex Discrimination Act 1984. This includes when you are:
- at work
- in school
- providing goods, services or accommodation
Different states and territories also have their own laws about sexual harassment. Some types of sexual harassment, such as sexual assault, are criminal offences.
Sexual harassment does not include sexual activity you and a partner have both consented to.
What is consent?
Consent is when the people engaging in a sexual activity openly and freely agree to it. Before engaging in a sexual activity or behaviour, you should always ask for consent.
Sexual activities can include:
- flirting
- kissing
- touching
- having sex
If you give consent to a sexual activity, you can change your mind at any time.
If someone consents to one sexual act, that doesn’t mean they consent to another.
People who are affected by drugs or alcohol cannot properly give consent.
How can sexual harassment impact me?
Sexual harassment can have an impact on your mental and physical health.
Your mental health
Sexual harassment can be distressing. It can make you feel:
- ashamed
- anxious
- stressed
- powerless
- angry
- afraid
Being a victim of sexual harassment can lead to lower self-esteem and depression. In severe cases, it can cause post-traumatic stress disorder.
Your physical health
Sexual harassment can cause physical symptoms, such as:
- headaches
- backaches
- insomnia
- anxious feelings, including a racing heart or upset stomach
You may also feel less productive or have trouble concentrating.
Your life
The mental and physical impact of sexual harassment can affect the rest of your life. If you are a target of sexual harassment, you may find that you are:
- avoiding work or school
- being less social
- struggling with school or work
There are things you can do to protect yourself if you are being sexually harassed.
What can I do if I am being sexually harassed?
Do not tolerate sexual harassment. You have a right to work and live in an environment free of harassment.
Keep a record
It’s a good idea to keep a diary of the sexual harassment and to keep any evidence, like:
- text messages
- social media comments
- emails
Tell the perpetrator to stop
If you feel safe and comfortable to, you can speak to the person who is harassing you.
You can try to resolve the situation by:
- telling the person that their behaviour is inappropriate
- asking them to stop
Reporting the sexual harassment
If you are being sexually harassed at school or work, you can speak with a close friend or a senior person, such as:
- your employer
- your manager
- your supervisor
- the human resources department at your workplace
- your head teacher
- your professor
You can ask them to take action against the person who is sexually harassing you.
If the sexual harassment happens outside of school or work, you can report it to your local police station.
You can also make a written or online complaint about sexual harassment to the Human Rights Commission.
If you feel your complaint was not dealt with properly, you can take it to:
- the Federal Court of Australia
- the Federal Circuit Court of Australia
Sexual harassment at school and in the workplace
Employers are responsible for preventing sexual harassment in organisations and schools.
Schools and workplaces should have a clear policy on sexual harassment. It should include a process for dealing with sexual harassment reports, to make sure that:
- reports are clearly recorded and addressed fairly
- reports are dealt with by a person with proper training
- the person making a report is not disadvantaged
- the person making a report is aware that they can also report to the Human Rights Commission or the police
The policy should also outline how a complaint is managed, and what action will be taken against a harasser.
Schools and workplaces should make sure that employees and students:
- are trained to deal with sexual harassment
- know where to find the school or organisation’s harassment policy